Being grateful for all that's around you

Union Recording Co. — Gastonia, NC

Steven Fiore, musician and producer, has a catalog of great music and now has been a helping hand with other artists creating their visions and music. It was a treat to sit down with Steven and chat about his story and how music became his passion. I’ve been listening to Young Mister for years and always missed the chance to see them perform when I was living in New York. I saw them perform at Snug Harbor in Charlotte a few years ago; it was just a full-circle moment. Listening to the self-titled album on vinyl and seeing it performed live was one of those beautiful feelings as a fan. So, let’s get into it; how did it all start for Steven? “I grew up in Charleston. I jumped around. I went from Charleston to Boston, returned for a little while, and met my wife, and all bets were off. I went to Los Angeles for a bit, and we did long distance. I was trying to salvage a publishing deal I had. I was there for about seven months and moved back to the East Coast, and my wife got a job in Chapel Hill, we moved there so North Carolina has been home for a while.”

Where did the music journey begin? What was the spark that inspired you to pick up the guitar and start playing? “Well, I’ve actually been unraveling that in therapy — it’s been fun. The biggest part was I’ve always been into music. I got into pop country in the 90’s because that’s what my parents listened to. Brooks & Dunn and all of that good stuff, and I always wanted to be in that world. Going to concerts, seeing all of the lights and tour buses, I wanted to do that. From there, I got into pop music in the 90’s, and when I started listening to The Beatles, that was the real push for me to pick up a guitar. That taste in music lasted and stayed, but then I fell hard into the rock era of Creed (laughs), but it's all part of the journey.”

Did you have ambitions of touring or writing when you first started to play guitar? “I didn’t really understand the concept of someone else writing a song and an artist playing it, and I wanted to be the guy; I wanted to write my own music. That filled the gaps of all of the insecurities I had, so the guitar was my superpower, and I leaned hard into that. I think it's the same for a lot of us. Even if it's not been discovered, there’s a thing that’s missing for us and its a way to help us express that. Music gives us the opportunity to be honest in ways that we may not be otherwise.”

Now, with owning the recording studio, do you see more of a drive in production or recording, or do you want to write your stuff and still play and tour? “I see it as an equal path. In this day and age, with music, you need to have a lot of different avenues to make a living doing it. You need a lot of irons in the fire. For me, I like writing, I like producing, I like playing. I like playing the role of being an art director for an artist. My goal when I quit my job last year was to create a bunch of services that I love to do that involve music that allows me to live my life and earn a living. It's a means of finding what you love, capitalizing on it, and trying a million different versions of it.”

You mentioned quitting your job. What was that like? Were you ready for it, or was it a hard or scary point? “So I was a Creative Director. I did corporate design. I’ve been doing that since 2016. My first album came out, and I got this job with a real estate/tech company. They sold the company, and I accepted a creative director role elsewhere. I was happy; I had a big-boy job, making a lot of money, and this was all I wanted. I had the feeling of being an agency man and I had a whole week of happiness, and then there were problems with the agency, but in reality, I would have never been happy. There is always something missing when I’m not doing music. I feel the happiest doing this.”

Was it hard to make that jump? “Yes, my gosh, I was so scared. My manager said you’ll be able to quit your job next year, and I thought he was crazy. But I had enough stuff going on, and it was time. I jumped, they say jump and the net will appear. Well, it was time. I had people traveling here to record with me, which was great. I was just doing it at my house, too. My buddy Justin called me to say he had this space and wanted to open a studio. We were both on the fence about it for a few months, and we finally made the decision to do it and open it up, and it was the best choice.”

How do you look at the albums you released? That self-titled record still shines for a lot of your fans. "It's funny, the self-titled is my least favorite, and it's the most iconic of the name Young Mister and most well-received — it's everything to people who listen to me. ‘This is Where We Are Now’ and 'Sudden Swoon' are my favorites and mean a lot to me. It was my first venture into self production, and I was just raw and real on those records. That first album and experience was so special, we did that record in Charleston, it was just a magical time. The way we made it was great, the way it came out was great, but I can't explain it; I think it was just a time capsule. Making that record, I didn't realize it then, but I could never continue this sound. It was just a one-time thing, and I wasn't going to make another record like that. To me I'm always a songwriter first and artist second so the songs are always like whatever hits, it’s not necessarily all cohesive. I can't just write things that don't feel right. That first album felt authentic then and not now."

What proud moment stands out to you and has shaped you into the person you are today? “I always go back to the times when I worked outside music. I think about those years sometimes as a bag full of regrets, but it's not. It is what made me the functional human being that I am now. I wouldn’t have known how to run my art as a business without those times. I would have just been lost without taking that time away from music. That moment when my publishing deal failed, and accepting that and then moving on and doing something else for a little while made me a much stronger artist and person. It’s funny you ask that question; I’ve been breaking this down in therapy. I feel like that is the moment that really shaped me, and credit goes to my wife, who gave me the strength to believe that I could do that.”

Are you a goal-driven person? ”I have goals, but they are just abstract, I guess. I want to be more successful, whatever that means. I want to sell more tickets and produce bigger things; I want to max out whatever success I can in this life. There is a great Bill Withers quote. “Set your sights on amazing; before you get to amazing, you’re going to have to pass through alright. Once you get to alright, stop and take a good look around because that’s what might become your amazing.” I try to always keep that fresh with me. You can manifest all you want but if you go through life always remembering to stop sometimes and take a look at where you are and be grateful for everything that’s there, you are just set up for more success moving into the future.”

What lessons do you take with you that you’ve learned along the way? “Answer emails. (Laughs). But respond to people. It doesn’t matter if it's a yes or no, but always respond to people who reach out. My ADHD kicks in, and it's a challenge. it might take me a while, but I will respond. Say yes to things and show up. Show up ready to do it.

What’s next? How do you feel about your next release? “I want to be excited about it, but the reality of releasing music at my level is that it's going to pop or it's not. Recently, it hasn’t been that or had any big release. I’m excited about it because I’ve worked so hard on this EP, and I just want to get it out into the world for people to hear it. Having hopes and dreams for it is fine but what I learned is that you need to just make it for you, put it out and be excited for just that one moment."

Seeing the bigger picture and never giving up

Marshall Park — Charlotte, NC

When you see images of Charlotte, you probably have noticed the incredible work of one of the city's most talented photographers, Krista Jasso. Growing up in El Paso, Krista was gracious enough to share her story on moving to Charlotte and all of the incredible experiences that have come her way from having the mindset of making her loved ones and family proud. "I grew up in El Paso, Texas, and it was a heavy Mexican-American city. My mom had gotten a job in North Carolina, and I was old enough to be excited and understand why we were moving. It was just different. This was our first time moving away from our comfort area in El Paso. Not having our whole family here was tough because family is everything for us. Since the move, we've stayed, and this city has been so good to my sister and me and our family. There is just so much opportunity here."

With Krista being such a talented and well-known photographer here in the city, I was curious where that passion came from. “I always had some sort of creative mindset. My sister and I are very similar and different; I always say she’s the smarter one — she’s an accountant, good with numbers, she’s so smart, and I’m on the other side of the brain — I have that creative energy and side of things. We were dancers, and I was a cheerleader, so I always wanted to do something fun and creative. I always loved taking pictures. My dad still keeps my Barbie film camera from when I was little. He still wants me to take it to games and use it. That was where I knew I had something. I was a dance teacher in high school, and a photography studio was attached to it. I would start to see how it works and thought it was really cool. My Uncles were into photography, so there was always a camera around. I had an internship in my sophomore year of college, and it was doing the Pope's social media for his visit to the United States. I was in Philadelphia for ten days while he was there, and this internship solidified what I am doing now. So many things are captured into one. I had my camera with me on the ground, capturing what was going on. I remember walking the streets of Philly, and I told myself that this was what I wanted to do and where I needed to be. Never in a million years would I have thought it would be to this scale doing it professionally.”

I always find it interesting how other photographers and creatives envision their work. Krista has such a unique way of telling a story through a photograph. How do you see what to capture? Do you look for things that other photographers would overlook? “I go in with somewhat of a game plan, but I let things naturally happen. I’ve always grown up with the mentality of thinking outside the box and looking at the bigger picture. My Dad will always say that to me a million times to look at the bigger picture. People can pick up a camera and do different things, but what can I bring differently, and what will stand out more?”

Are you a goal-driven person, or do you just roll with it? “It’s a little bit of a mix; there are things I would love to photograph. I would love to photograph a World Cup and Super Bowl, but my main goal is to truly always make my family, my grandparents before me and the people I love happy. Coming from an immigrant family, my sister and I found an old tax return from my Grandfather, and seeing his salary, I mean, it was pennies. Seeing that it was eye-opening, we’ve always known where we come from. My grandparents came here for this, so I always try to make them proud. Family is so important to me, and a lot of my family passed away in 2020/2021. When my Grandfather passed, he was just so proud and so excited to see us all grown up and doing things and accomplishing things. I remember showing my Uncle my baseball cards with the photos I took and seeing how happy he was — it’s things like this that tell me this is why I do it and why I want to see them happy. I want to make the sacrifices and all the hardships my grandparents and parents had to go through to show them that it was worth it. Honoring them and their memory is all I want to do. I have a ring that says ‘Vaga’ on it. it’s a nickname that my Grandfather used to call me, and it describes someone who is always on the go. I was always out and about, working and doing things. I keep them with me all the time.”

Do you have a favorite photograph you’ve taken so far? “From a personal standpoint, I took a photo of my grandfather. He has been sick for a while, and he got better, and there was a point he was standing in the kitchen down in El Paso during Christmas. I had my camera out for whatever reason, and I don’t know why I brought it. I saw him standing in the kitchen, just looking out the window, and I just took the photo. It’s my phone background. That is something; it was just the lighting, everything, and how he looked out the window — I’m gonna cry. It’s a very simple photo, but I have that forever, and it means so much to me, my mom, and my family. That’s why I’m so grateful to have this passion and skill. I captured a lot of these memories that will never happen again that I can take with me forever. Professionally, the Julius Peppers photo will always be my favorite Panther photo, and the team photo of Charlotte F.C. after their first win, you felt how happy all of those guys were together; it was incredible. I have it printed on my desk at work.”

Are there any proud moments for you that have shaped you into the person you are today? “There’s a few. Going back to Philadelphia, there was a point and time at this location in this church when people could write down a prayer request and put it on this fabric, and you would tie it, and it created this beautiful dome-like structure, and they were blowing in the wind — it was beautiful. I remember being there, and my boss pulled us aside, and she said keep this a secret, but the Pope is coming here and making an unscheduled stop. I was so excited and had to tell my parents too I called my mom and I remember covering my mouth and telling her that the Pope was coming to where we were and she started crying and everyone was so excited, and they were so proud and happy for me, and it was one of those moments where I thought a girl from a small town in El Paso, Texas who’s family came from nothing who worked for everything was going to be in the presence of one of the most historical figures. It was just crazy. Another moment was when I got asked to be interviewed by one of the Telemundo stations in Charlotte, and it was my first Spanish interview. Growing up here, it’s a bit broken, but we are working on it. I did the full interview in Spanish, it was difficult, and I was nervous. I remember my family watched it, and they cried and it made them happy and proud that people like us can do big things. Many of these opportunities are not in El Paso, so moving over here was just a blessing. That’s what I do this for. I don’t go on social media and post regularly because that’s not what’s fulfilling for me. What’s fulfilling to me is seeing my family and friends happy and proud. All the gratitude goes to them who support me and believe I can do this.”

What important lessons do you take with you? “A lot of the lessons I’ve learned have come from my family but also being a short, statured girl and a lot of the times I’ve seen people believe that I can do the things I can do. I’m not just a photographer; I also do analytics. I don’t dull any part of me down or keep any part of me away to fit into someone else’s idea of who I am. My family, especially all of them, have told me to embrace who I am, always be myself, and never let anyone else's opinions about me bring me down. Choosing male-dominated sports and a career is just hard, but my family told me never to give up. There’s a saying in Spanish, and it’s ‘Echale ganas’ meaning “give it your all” if it’s hard, if it's easy, and at the end of the day, if that’s all you can do, then that’s all you can do. I hope that I can make it a little easier for the next person. It will still be hard, but you can’t give it up. Things truly do work out the way it’s supposed to.”

Creating the ever lasting memory

South End — Charlotte, NC

For those who know or are aware of Rico Marcelo, all you see is a smile. From a hospitality mindset and passion, Rico provides the a helping hand when he can to the community. “I Grew up in Virginia Beach. I love helping people, I love the idea of serving people. I studied hospitality management and worked in a few different jobs and always did photography on the side. There was no real path for photography, I just loved it. COVID hit and it was just brutal for the hospitality business. I was furloughed from my job. It took out the warm welcoming of hospitality so it was just a hard time. My girlfriend and I decided to take a trip to Asheville and travel around and see new cities and on the way back we just decided to check out Charlotte. We immediately loved it. After that year we took a chance and closed out that chapter of our lives and wanted to see what Charlotte had to offer. This city is so welcoming. I first reached out to Yelp because I had a connect in Virginia Beach and after that — it was just moments of connecting with different people and I wanted to find ways to help.”

It’s always interesting to hear how hobbies or passions start for people so where did the photography passion start for Rico? “In college I saved up to afford a DSLR and I went out to bars and photographed the night life for the bars for free tabs and would tag them on Facebook. As that started to grow it was just word of mouth of people knowing a friend with a camera. During COVID I would offer my work for free to help restaurants because it was such a tough time. At the core it’s hospitality — serving clients and giving them that experience that creates an ever lasting memory that they can have. That’s amazing. You don’t know what other people are dealing with so the smallest thing can make the biggest difference.”

What was that proud moment for Rico that has shaped him into the person he is today? “I’ve been through some hardships and I’m here to share my experiences. People seek advice, I just spit off my story because sometimes it’s important to talk about it. ArtPop was just another proud moment where I still can just describe it as — crazy. A photo you took overlooking the skyline, that’s crazy. Art wasn’t a traditional path in my family and they didn’t understand that it can be sustainable and now seeing their support, acceptance and seeing my Dad share my photos and see how proud he is? That’s everything. I just want to make my family happy.”

Any important lessons you take with you on a daily basis? I try to preserve the memories for others. Like I said, you never know what someone is going through. I’ll use the bar for example. I bartend now and maybe someone is having a hard week, they saved up enough money to just get out for a night and enjoy themselves. They might be struggling with anything and they need that release. So with that or photography I’m trying to make that moment special and what they need. You don’t know how long we have so capturing and perserving those moments is super impactful. I take it day to day and I’m just thankful and I want to make people happy. Positivity, man. Let’s all work together.”

Having the opportunity to help other people

Plaza Midwood — Charlotte, NC

Bryan Li does it all — Open Rice, Shameless Society Improv and Charlotte is Creative, but more importantly Bryan is a great person who has surrounded himself with people in this city that are making an impact to better the lives of others. Bryan and I met last year and it’s been fun to see the growth of the things that he is doing in the city and every time we saw each other it was another incredible moment to learning something new about him and his journey. “I grew up in Hong Kong, moved to Mooresville, NC and attended High School there. I moved to Charlotte when I was 19 for college at UNCC. High School wasn’t great; I didn’t make any close friends and always felt there was this big disconnect between me and everyone around me from cultural differences my confidence level and language barriers. When I moved to Charlotte, I told myself I needed to get out there; this was a great place to restart. I met a lot of great people and when I graduated that’s when me and my business partner started our first restaurant — Pisces, we had that for eight years. This is where the people and connection comes into play because when we first opened — for the first three months I could tell you everyone's name who walked through that door and supported us and kept that afloat. We sold the business in late 2017, and that’s where my creative career started. I met Matt Owen from Charlotte is Creative, and we both saw that we could help each other with the goals we wanted, which led me to be on that board for them.”

“When it comes to improv, I was never a performer; even now, I feel that I’m very good at producing and knowing who is good at what and setting them up to do what they are good at. I have zero desire to be in the spotlight, but I absolutely love it when I’m up there with my friends. I originally got into improv because I wanted to write. I have a very close friend who is big into script writing who helped me. One of the important decisions I've made was one day I walked into Charlotte Comedy Theatre to take a few classes, and it immediately became one of the best decisions of my life. One, it's because of the people. My closest friends are people I met through this, and two, the mindsets and skills I’ve learned I never would have learned anywhere else.” When I took my first class, I was 31 years old, and I learned to listen, how to be present, how to be thoughtful and confident; at 31, where would you get that and learn it in such a natural way? I look at my life before 31 and after 31, and it’s such a significant impact on me.”

What was the spark for writing? Where did that come from? “Wasn’t really a spark, it was just a moment where I could figure out what was next and improv was that thing that I wanted to give a try. All of these decisions were made so naturally, and up until this point in my life, that’s not how I normally think. Time, investment, what is the return? When I look back at the last few years of my life, the best decisions I’ve made for myself were not made through those lenses.”

The restaurant business is tricky, so how did one want to jump right into it after college? You are a planner for the improv and making others shine where they are good at it. Is this a similar mindset for owning the restaurant? “This will be interesting for me to separate the two. The Open Rice version of me is very different. I have other business partners, so its different. In my twenties, I was always at the restaurant I was fully in it and I know what that’s like. Now, I’ve made the decision where this is not how I want to live my life. I'm an investor and help out where they need help. I run the website and social media. Do I have a passion for food? I do when it comes to eating but am not a chef. Being in the business for so long has taken the romance away for me. When I try and cook at home it is not chill, I feel like tickets are waiting and I need to make it quick and get it out. I’m not a person who cares about doing something for the sake of it. That’s why improv has changed my life; people who know me can’t believe what I do because they don’t expect it. I’m so drawn to it because you see people who don’t allow themselves to have fun to have the best time within seven minutes. I love it. It allows people to trust me, and that’s a big deal, and knowing what it has done for me and being able to do that for someone else is incredible.”

I was excited to ask Bryan what proud moments he’s had that have shaped him into the brilliant man he is. “About a year ago, I organized a benefit show for this non-profit called CLT Foundation. They serve children who have a life-altering illness or injury. When we were planning this, they reached out and said there was this kid who was 21 at the time, and his dream is to be a standup comedian. I was honored and thought you could do better than me, but I will help. I met with him once a week; his name is Tristan. I helped him write a 15-minute bit at this fundraiser at Lenny Boy. We sold 300 tickets so there were a lot of people there. The fact that Tristan trusted me and went up there and crushed it was one of the most special moments for me in the last five years. People were in tears, everyone was laughing, seriously, he crushed it. Being fortunate enough to be part of something this cool for someone who should have been dead three different times gave me purpose and understanding how important it is to be part of this creative community and improv, it's incredible. We keep in touch, he has a new job, but I keep telling him that he needs more people to hear his story and see his talent.”

Tristan Elsener performing at Lenny Boy. Photo courtesy of Bryan Li.

Tristan Elsener performing at Lenny Boy. Photo courtesy of Bryan Li.

“It’s all about the people. People are what makes things so special. After we sold Pisces, I traveled, visited a few different cities, and always made my way back here. One is that my parents are now here, and the people that are here. It’s not what you surrounded self with but its who you are surrounded by. It’s guided me to make a lot of decisions in my life. Things are somewhat of an investment — emotion, time, money, all of it. I look at the person I invest in and not the thing I'm investing in. I’ve learned to listen and be present, and listening can guide you to where you want to be. It makes you a better person, better friend and person for your community. As cheesy as it sounds, we are all trying to tell someone, something, somehow. It’s up to us to tell it but if you listen it’s all there.”

Support systems and believing you can do it

Camp North End — Charlotte, NC

One word that comes to mind when you think of Matt Moore or see any of his murals around the city is — Iconic. You see them everywhere you turn, and it captivates you in some aspect of being impressed or taking that image and interpreting the way it makes you think or feel. Where did this passion come from? "I'm a very grateful person because I have a really rad life. I've had some major hardships and things I've had to overcome. I'm the luckiest guy on the planet for many reasons, but it’s because I've always known what I wanted to do. When I held my first pencil, I was drawing. I was obsessed with Bob Ross as a kid. My parents saw that and were kind enough to buy me a few canvases and easels. I wanted to do something with art but didn't know what that was. I wanted to direct music videos because music means a lot to me — I just wanted to make stuff."

"Another thing that's helped me is that I've always been supported. The older I've gotten, the more I've developed an empathy for other creatives. I grew up in Asheville, and I grew up kind of different. I played sports, was big into football, but I also loved art and was finding the balance for both. I had no one in my life tell me, "Oh, art is lame. Just stick to sports." I only had people tell me that I would be a famous artist — and when you hear that as a kid, you start to believe that you can do it."

"When I was 25, I started working at this nightclub and told my boss I was ready for my first art show. We did this live painting. My buddy, who wrote poetry, read something he wrote, and I painted as he read it to everyone. I was in the middle of the room, flipping this canvas all over and painting this piece, and no one knew what it was. I remember hearing people behind me saying, "C'mon, buddy, you got it!" And I was like, this is going to blow people's minds when I'm finished. And when my buddy was wrapping up his speech, I revealed the painting and the rawr that came through that room; it was that moment that took me to the next step. Now what?”

“So I just started painting. I linked up with a few places in the city and sold my art. I had my pieces available and was selling one or two a week, which was amazing. My buddy asked if I was interested in painting murals, and I did my very first mural for PBR in NoDa. Then, it was THAT moment that took me to the next level. I paint for other people because if I can inspire or make someone just a little uncomfortable — that's awesome. Once that happened, my buddy Matt Hooker was painting murals, too, so we started to collaborate on it and saw that something was there. It was very organic and natural. So now everything was getting into the mindset of the next step for my career: to learn and do something new. Growth is why I don't want to have a certain style where folks expect this one thing from me. The only way you'll get better is to try something you've never tried. Fail, learn and keep going. I have a room in my house with hundreds of paintings I created, just of me trying things. They'll never make it anywhere, but it's getting me to that next step."

What are some proud moments that has shaped Matt into the man he is today? “Marrying my wife was my proudest moment. She is the most beautiful, respectful, and kind human I have ever met, and the fact that she chose me? No other pride will match that. My birthday was on Monday, and just the little things of people showing you some love that’s amazing. Those little things never get old. The fact that David and Morgan took a year out of their life to document me, like what? And then seeing people at the premier in one room that supports you will always mean a lot to me. When it comes to pieces, the Pociden mural in Plaza Midwood was the first multi-story mural I did, and doing that live and hearing people honking their horns and saying they love it.

Is there any specific piece of work that you’ve done that you can always remember or go back to that moment when you created it? “Of course, I won’t put it out there unless I’m proud of it. I don’t have business cards or a website, I truly believe that if you put all of your money and energy into the product and the experience that the client has then it will always work out. I’m never going to sign it unless you are impressed by it and more importantly I’m impressed by it. The Black Lives Matter mural — that was the coolest day I’ve ever had as a professional artist. Never have I been more proud of the city and my art friends coming together. If you’re not proud of anything youre doing then you’re wasting your time. I’d rather go down giving everything I have.”

Recognizing your own creative ability.

Splatter CLT — Charlotte, NC.

It's like that moment when you meet someone and think, "Did we just become best friends?" Tim has one of those personalities and feelings when you know how genuine and passionate someone is when you first meet them. Splatter CLT is a fun painting experience for everyone. Offering team building exercises, date nights out or just a pleasant time with someone you care about, it's an escape from reality where you can enjoy yourself and create. How did this all come together? "I was walking through the Mint Museum and thought, wouldn't it be so cool to be in a big white room and throw paint at a wall? It's like being inside of a big painting. I built this white wall in my friend's backyard, put up some canvases, started throwing paint at it, and wondered why everyone doesn't do this. When someone asks where you got that piece of art, you can say, "oh, I made that." How cool is that?"

What is the long-term vision for this? The ultimate goal is to franchise this to different cities. You make your own art here, and now you have a story behind it to share with someone else. The experience of doing it is what I’m looking to maximize here. The ultimate goal outside of the business aspect is to make the hundreds of people who are intelligent, hard-working, creative people who think they are not, understand they are. Because of everything they have done artistically, they either judged themselves so hard because it didn’t look like what a professional artist would have painted or, even if they were good at it, they never got the support. It is so vital to have creativity in any industry. I like to show people that without any artistic or creative background or history — you are going to create something you will love, and other people will see value in that as well. The larger mission is to have people recognize their own creative abilities so that they are not so afraid to make things and they are not judging themselves before they even try. This is just a time where you don’t need to be on your phone, spend time with people you love and enjoy and you get to express yourself for just a second.”

We all have those proud and essential moments where we sometimes forget to go back and reflect on that to see that it has led us to where we are now. What was that proud moment for you? “For the last 16 years, I’ve been doing improvisational comedy. I grew up watching Who’s Line is It Anyway. In High School, I took a theater class as an elective. One day, they said we were going to do some improv. We played a game, and I got a laugh out of something I said. At that moment, I felt like I could do this forever. Since then, I’ve taught improv and started improv groups, and it has been, without question, the most valuable thing I have done for myself because a big part of that is learning how to listen to people. I find that for what we do here, most of it is asking questions, learning about them, and actively listening to people, which was important to me.”

"I became a Theater Minor in College because I loved it so much. I was in a class with my favorite teacher, and we were doing these two-person scenes. I was a class clown, I always wanted to make people laugh but I could do what I needed to do to get good grades. We got into this two-person acting session with the teacher, and I was talking about this serious, dramatic scene we were doing, and apparently, I looked upset. The teacher stopped me and asked if I was okay because I looked really upset. And I told her this is how I normally am when I'm listening and not trying to make people laugh. She said, "Oh, well, it's nice to meet you." And it was that moment that blew my mind, and I realized I don't need to be funny all the time; what's important is being engaged and listening to others when they need to be heard."

Learning the landscape and getting better each time.

Bojangles Coliseum — Charlotte, NC

This project has been really special. It’s addicting to see people giving it their all to make their dreams and passions come true. For me, hockey is the sport I love and can watch every day. To see TJ in his element and hearing his voice in full swing was something to appreciate.

A Saturday night game between the Checkers and the visiting Hershey Bears had TJ set up to execute a game better than the last. What do you think success is each night you call a game? “Being better than the game before and being as accurate to that as possible. If I can leave a game knowing I nailed that broadcast, I didn’t confuse players like a ten and an 18; I didn’t stutter my words — that is my goal. I’m trying to describe everything I see, every player I see, as accurately as I can.”

We all have those moments where something clicks, and we know what we want to fight for. From a car salesman to hosting a drive-time radio show, where did the inspiration come from? “I was content with selling cars and pushing buttons and speaking on the airwaves. I was very happy with all of it. I will never forget a buddy who worked at the same station came up to me and asked why I didn’t try play-by-play. And that was like a strike of lightning, and my next question was, how do I make that happen? From there, I made a demo, leading me to an internship in the hockey world. The train went in the same direction, but we diverted onto a new track and started rolling that way. I’ll never forget it. The passion chose me; I got lucky and caught the fever.

What do you say to folks who want to get into this career? “Keep your eyes open for the different jobs because they are not always obvious. Learn about the landscape. Also, keep your mouth open, speak up for yourself and keep practicing.” What’s next? “NHL is the goal. I try to do everything I can to keep fighting for it so I can play ball when the opportunity comes. I want to get better and better. I listen back to our broadcasts and see what I can fix and work on.”

“I'm thankful to be in Charlotte and with the Checkers. I’m lucky — that’s all I can say. It will take time to get where you need to be, but to have the mindset of embracing everything in front of you will be important.”

You know when someone has it, and TJ has it. It’s the voice you want to hear to give you play-by-play for your favorite team. The talent is there, passion is there, and the voice will carry your love for the game to a higher level.

A passion that will never go away

Bank of America Stadium — Charlotte, NC

When you know, you know. That’s the immediate feeling you get when you meet Will Palaszczuk and Jessica Charman, two commentators and analysts for Charlotte FC, but fans of the game of soccer and, more importantly, folks who love their job

A midweek night matchup at Bank of America Stadium as Charlotte FC played a critical match against Toronto, a win was needed, and I knew the passion coming from the booth would be electric. Prep work and a few pregame interviews were done, and it was time to roll.

I asked Will if this was it for him if being a play-by-play announcer was the dream. “I always wanted to be the voice for a team — this is it. “I’m tickled to death that I’m able to be associated with this team. I can do this for the rest of my life and be happy.”

With our passions and careers, we constantly reach for more and have that one dream of doing something important. Speaking with Jessica, I asked her what that was. “I would love to do commentating for Reading FC. That was the team I grew up listening to on the radio and the connection with my Dad — it would be really special to do that.”

You can tell that Jessica and Will have the passion and the spark to take this opportunity to be the voice of Charlotte FC and run with it. We all have those moments that get us to that point of being proud of where we are and, more importantly, who we are. So what was that moment for them? Will starts — “Wow. I learned very early that you don’t say no to things. There was a time in college when I was working at a TV station, and I essentially said no to something on the weekend. I was a freshman in college. And you find out really early if you say no then they stop asking. So unless you have a really good reason to say no to something you want to do, you do it.” 

Jessica talks about her soccer career and what that did for her. “Getting a full ride to college and being able to play for them. I was able to win Scholar-Athlete of the Year. Showing I was combining athletics and academics and being a student-athlete meant a lot. When I say this is my dream job, there is a picture of me at my College campus that says, Future Sports Broadcaster”.

I can’t thank these two enough for letting me spend time with them to see the effort, love and passion they put into a match night. You hear the historic calls of important or incredible plays, but when you see it in person and the genuine excitement that goes into their voice, it’s magic.

Mike Pacheco - A Voice of Passion

Truist Field - Charlotte, NC

It’s one of those moments when you meet someone, and you can immediately tell how much their passion means to them. You probably know the voice once you hear it. But how did that all start for Mike? "Everyone's path and journey to broadcasting is different."

From producing to hosting to play-by-play's for The Charlotte Knights, Panthers, Winthrop University, you name it - Mike has done it all. 

"One of the things that has been instrumental in my career is the ability to do different things."

Growing up in Massachusetts, Mike studied Political Science and worked as a paper boy for The Boston Globe. Wanting to follow his passion, he moved to New York and began working in newsrooms, editing sound bites and creating lead-ins for on-air segments.

I have always been interested in what goes into calling a sporting event and how announcers prepare and execute a game. How does it all come together? "First thing I do, because I'm getting old (laughs), is get my glasses." After batting practice, Mike heads up to the booth to prepare for the game. "I write down the lineup and add batting averages, home runs, RBIs, just things I can reference fast because you need to be as efficient as possible when things happen." Do you get nervous, or is this just second nature? "I think it's anticipation. It's a sense of responsibility. You have fans and parents listening, you don't want to mess up a kid's name or screw up a call, but I need to be aware of what's going on and get it right and fair." 

It isn't always about the numbers as well. "It's not all about the numbers and stats. Baseball allows you to stretch your legs a bit to tell a story and be descriptive."

After prep is done for the game, teammates get together to discuss pregame conversations/interviews. Mike then heads down to meet Kendall, who hosts the pregame show as fans enter the stadium, giving stats on previous games and what to expect for the upcoming matchup. It was great to see fans' appreciation for Mike as they went right up to him just to say hi or have a quick conversation. From there, Mike heads up to the booth minutes before the first pitch at 7:04 p.m. and meets with his broadcast partner and lead play by play announcer for the Knights, Matt Swierad.

Matt was honored and recognized the night before for calling his 3,500th game for the Charlotte Knights. The duo have been together since 2005 and have fallen in sync ever since. Watching these two sit in the booth, open the window, flip the switch on for their microphones and start the game was seamless, and you could tell their respect for one another. Being in the booth and listening to the play-by-play and commentary was a real treat. Don’t you always go to a game in person and think how different and strange it is not to have commentary from TV or Radio? It was a mix of feelings watching it being called in the booth. Pitch numbers, hits, strikes, balls, pop flies, home runs, everything is documented, written down and even there to sprinkle in the broadcasts.

I asked Matt in between innings if he had a favorite or funny memory of working with Mike. "We were calling a game at the old ballpark in Fort Mill, and we were so high up, and there was a hornet's nets right below us, and they were flying around us in front of the booth. Our ops guy gave us bug spray, and right as I was about to lean out the window to spray, he said, hey, it has a long reach. I started spraying this, and it started going about 20 feet out, and it started landing on fans below us who have nachos and drinks, and we are in tears laughing."

It was a pleasure talking to Mike and spending a night at the Ballpark to see how calling a game goes down. Mike gave me a sense that whatever passion you have, the journey and hard work will always pay off, especially if it's the thing you love to do.

Maggie French

Artist, painter and designer Maggie French joins us to share her journey as an art teacher and taking the chance on herself to put her purpose to her passion. Follow Maggie: https://maggiebfrench.com/ @maggiebfrench

Audrey Syleste

Welcome back to another episode! Audrey and I met when we both first moved to Charlotte, she is one of the nicest human beings. She explains her journey to the city and how her experiences has made this home for her.

Danny Charland

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Follow Danny, @d_c5

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